Sarah Palin is facing some criticism for seeking a high-profile, high-obligation job while she has a young infant at home. Criticisms like those are unjust as they are unfairly leveled at women and not men.
The feminist movement earned women the right to choose career or family or career and family. Likewise, it earned men the same options.
When Palin was elected governor of Alaska last year, the Anchorage Daily News indicated her husband was taking a leave from his job to spend more time with the kids.
“At home, [Todd] Palin takes care of the cooking, the bills and other domestic paperwork, in addition to driving the kids to extracurricular activities like basketball and soccer, according to his wife.
“He can go on just an hour or two of sleep a night. He says, ‘I can sleep when I die,’ ” said Sarah Palin. “There is no way I could have done this job without his tremendous contributions to the home life. He’s able to keep it organized, like a well-oiled machine.”
This weekend, Andrea Kay, syndicated column for Gannett, pointed out that more men are requesting paternity leave. She cited statistics that showed 71% of fathers with a child under age five took paternity leave when it was offered.
Kay writes in defense of the Federal Employees Paid Parental Leave Act (H.R. 5781) currently before the Senate. It would provide federal workers entitled to FMLA leave with four weeks of paid parental leave. President Bush threatened to veto this legislation in June, just before it passed the house.
“If we are to retain the best workers whose priorities include quality of life and being a hands-on parent, a serious look at alternative working options is in order,” Kay writes. “It’s not just a woman’s issue or a man’s issue. It’s a business issue.”
That’s right. It’s not just a woman’s issue.
For information on shared parenting models visit Equally Shared Parenting and the Third Path Institute.
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